How can I stop overthinking and take action more quickly?
14.06.2025 02:27
‘No, that's stupid, what's relevant, what best can be done?’
Overthinking gives you instant peace, you know why Because it stabilises and focuses your mind, it clears any confusion caused by positive options. It makes you forget your life and hop between thoughts.
Relive relevant moments.
Why am I attracted to older men?
You start thinking about what each one present there would be thinking, about similar events that happened throughout life, you try to explore that person's reasons and thoughts behind that action and zero in on the worst possible reason, while that fool simply forgot that they didn't greet you already. You question your esteem and identity, ‘he did that because I earn less, I am not worthy of respect. When my day comes, he will get it back with interest.’
Any external information is like a detail in a mathematics sum for you. It needs to be used well to identify the correct formula and steps to a solution.It's not written for continuous attention and thinking and dwelling on it.
The worst people do is to repeat the same thought again and again. It's like banging our head repeatedly on a wall in anger.
You are connecting dots, but without any intelligence, simply creating random dots and joining them creating a complex spiral of thoughts leading to nowhere except chaos.
Sometimes, you wake up at night post a nightmare with real body reactions like chills, heart beating fast, sweating. But, was the dream real? Your mind only percieved it to be real due to lack of the thought of illusion, and same happens when people become anxious.
Always realise the purpose of thinking and don't deviate from it.
Can you turn 150 pages into a 5 minute presentation before a meeting?
Can you roll your eyes to your foolish thoughts?
What's the purpose of the sun?
The purpose of thinking is-
At what stage in your life did you realize, "No, I can't do this any more" and walk out? Why?
if you thought about something in a way, and there was nothing to do; no results, it must not be repeated, no more thinking about it. Reread this.
To burn every bit of life on this planet Earth? Or, to generate, nourish and sustain life and to give light. What if it suddenly goes out of control and rushes towards us?
it's like scratching a painful wound and then regretting it later.
Let's discuss an example.
‘It's not a life or death threat, it's over, it's small.’
Protect us.
Focus on solving and moving to the next problem.
Anubhav Jain
When you are thinking about an event where someone mildly insulted you in front of a crowd, let's say they greeted everybody else and not you. I agree, It's sad and painful, it should trigger anger, and that's okay. But what happens next is unbelievable.
Learn for the future.
The solution was simple, if that person is close and this is the first time, ask them. If they are a repeated offender and not so close, simply ditch them, and disown them. ‘Not my friend anymore. I won't pay attention to him.’ That's about it, you are free to enjoy peace of mind and life.
Why don't you focus on the ‘purpose of thinking’ more than merely thinking, that is, to find a solution or a path to a solution?
What are the main issues that have historically and currently divided Republicans and Democrats?
‘What am I doing?’
What is the use of thinking?
‘C'mon, get going, nothing happened.’
Have a core belief that, nothing is worth ruining even one precious moment of my life, nothing is the end of the world, and that peaceful existence is my ultimate goal like the entire nature.
The moment you deviate. Correct it.
To make you insane and run behind millions of useless thoughts forming chains and spirals?
Would you raise your children like your parents raised you?
Decide.
Why don't you simply realise that you are merely thinking and not be one with your thoughts and start living them?
What's the purpose?
How do you stop your balls from sweating?
To find a solution, an active solution.
Read patiently to clear your mind of baseless overthinking.
Remind us of essons and learnings to deal with life.
Astronomers see the 1st stars dispel darkness 13 billion years ago at 'Cosmic Dawn' - Space
Wake yourself up.
Always wake up in the moment of overthinking and shouting stop in your mind.